If you’re in your 20s, chances are you’re swiping right and left on your phone more than you’re brushing your teeth (no judgment, we’ve all been there).
Dating in the digital age is SO fun. But it’s also where ghosting, bread crumbing, and catfishing are real struggles.
Who knows how many weirdos you have to swipe through before you get to meet the LOYL?
Whether you’re a seasoned swiper or a hesitant newcomer, we’ve rounded up some online dating tips to help you find that special someone who’ll make your heart do the Macarena.
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Bio Brilliance
Your bio is your dating resume and virtual calling card, so make it pop! Be real, and let your personality shine through. Don’t be afraid to reveal your passions, quirks, sense of humor, or even your irrational fear of garden gnomes if you want to reel those in who vibe with your vibe. And please, for the love of all that’s swappable, don’t fib. If you’re a couch potato, don’t pretend you’re a marathon runner. Honesty’s the name of the game.
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Don't Be Quick to Make Judgments
Do you swipe through profiles faster than you can say “supercalifragilisticexpialidocious”?
Hold up, tiger. Why so quick to judge? A person might not have the best photo game, but their vibe might totally match yours.
Someone who looks arrogant might be the most humble person you’ll ever meet.
Give profiles a chance, and don’t just swipe based on someone’s haircut or lack thereof. Remember, love is blind – and sometimes, it’s hiding behind an awkward selfie.
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Engage in Meaningful Yet Fun Conversations
Do you swipe through profiles faster than you can say “supercalifragilisticexpialidocious”?
Alright, you’ve matched with someone. Congrats!
Skip the generic “Hey, what’s up?” and slide into their DMs with something engaging that has substance.
Thoughtful questions can help you get to know a person quickly. Ask about their passions, the latest Netflix binge, or even their opinion on pineapple pizza (a true compatibility test).
Ditch the small talk and dive into the deep stuff, with a little fun here and there. Nothing’s sexier than a mind that can hold its own in a text conversation and make the other person go, “Whoa! I love talking to her/him!”
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Be Wary of the Red (and Pink) Flags
The online dating world has its fair share of landmines. If someone’s personality is enveloped in a bullfighter’s cape, take heed.
Are they only sending late-night texts and ghosting you during the day? That’s a big no-no.
Have they made it clear they’re not ready for a serious relationship? They’re probably not a good fit.
Did they casually mention that they have an underground lair for their extensive doll collection? Yeah, maybe run.
When you’re getting to know someone, trust your gut – it’s got better radar than the GPS.
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Explore the Online Connection IRL
So, you’ve been chatting with someone for days, maybe weeks. It’s time to take this digital love affair into the real world.
Set up a date, but don’t go all out on your first meetup. Opt for something casual like coffee or a stroll in the park, and see how you like them IRL.
Meeting in person can be both thrilling and nerve-wracking, but that’s the beauty of it.
Embrace the butterflies, and who knows? This could be the beginning of something epic.
And if it doesn’t feel that way, you can always part ways.
Happy swiping! :)
